i keep hearing that fatal frame is coming to the ps3 and the wii. but i think that it not coming to the 360 is a big mistake. because the 360 has a huge fan and player base and so my question is this:has anyone heard of fatal frame coming to the 360?

No, it won't be heading to the system anytime soon. The most recent announcement for the series is for the Wii and it is going to be published by Nintendo. What system this game will show up on is entirely in the hands of the publisher.

That said there is always TGS 2008 to look forward to.

Personally, I am *HOPING* that something about the game was mentioned in Nintendo Summit 2008 this past Thursday/Friday

I posted this in my GDC thread. I haven't read it myself so I'm not sure of its content.
NS2008 summit

There wasn't.

I checked all the news articles even the stuff that had been embargoed...no new news yet. :/